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Here are five things I've learned about casual sex: After a series of disappointments, I had no choice but to examine the role I was playing in all of this. I'd meet a guy, we'd hit it off and just when I started to feel like I could trust him, he'd turn into a giant flake.
I would then blame myself for being stupid enough to experience human emotions. Once I figured out why I was choosing them, my entire perspective changed.
We think it makes us weak or that feelings lead to a loss of our freedom or independence.
Casual sex can be respectful, but it requires honesty, communication and the strength to walk away when you realize someone is unwilling to give you what you want.
I realized the only time I wanted more of a commitment from a guy was when he showed signs of flakiness or emotional unavailability.
If the two of you are truly enjoying each other's company in and outside of the bedroom, I hate to tell you, but you both have the case of the feels.Any time someone wanted more of a commitment from me, I freaked out.For the last few years, every guy I dated gave some sort of disclaimer up top about, “Just getting out of a relationship,” or, “Not looking for anything serious,” or “really just focusing on his career.”I would ignore this giant red flag and then berate myself for doing something to drive him away when subconsciously, I chose him because I knew he would eventually do that.Don't waste your time ruminating over what you did wrong or what you can do to get a person to act as you want him or her to act. All you can control is the amount of bullsh*t you accept in your life and how you react to it.My faulty thinking in the past was that if someone really liked me, he or she would act differently.
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